Ghosting

What on Earth? Why? In a dating set up or in a job hunting set up or whatever. What is this? Another human dedicated their most valuable and irreplaceable asset: time! On a connection with you. They deserve some attention and clarity in return. What is there to lose by telling them where they stand? They will lose more of their time following up and guessing and they might get upset or whatever. Why? What can go wrong if you chose to reply? What exactly is there to avoid? Is this a power game? If yes, ghosting only signals cowerdness btw. Can someone help me make sense of “ghosting” please? We even invented a term for the thing given how frequent it gets. It’s too kind of a name for it btw… I won’t put the suggestions in my blog though … 🙂

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